tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post1215868902068742487..comments2023-10-31T04:16:04.331-05:00Comments on Feed Me!: At risk for what?Harriethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09774535311853591028noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-30051502972394614942007-07-17T21:52:00.000-05:002007-07-17T21:52:00.000-05:00angi,oh boy, your story makes me mad! it's so typi...angi,<BR/><BR/>oh boy, your story makes me mad! it's so typical of our fat-phobic culture to equate thin with good even at the risk of an unborn child. good for you for catching on. i hope you'll go have an ice cream sundae in honor of your baby!Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09774535311853591028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-34574025886961620982007-07-17T18:07:00.000-05:002007-07-17T18:07:00.000-05:00You have no idea how this blog entry saved my sani...You have no idea how this blog entry saved my sanity! I am eight months pregnant and am measuring small and have actually lost nearly five lbs. in the past two weeks--they didn't seem too concerned. My father told me "good job" in response to my weight loss. I'm wearing medium non-maternity pajama pants...i thought i'd recovered from anorexia. and i feel horrible about my slip here--but it's hard to get help when people congratulate you for causing your unborn serious problems because you're obsessed about your own weight!angihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00576592681332413195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-12411761335433608952007-07-14T06:48:00.000-05:002007-07-14T06:48:00.000-05:00I read that too, Carrie. Genetics, anyone? That ar...I read that too, Carrie. Genetics, anyone? That article actually had a hilarious followup about how babies supposedly are born with a taste for whatever foods their mothers ate during pregnancy. So if you eat junk food while pregnant your baby will have a predilection for junk food. WTF??!! If that's not magical thinking I don't know what is.<BR/><BR/>Vanessa, thank you for your comment. A (thin) friend of mine recently said to me that she'd never yet met a fat activist who wasn't fat. It's good to be reminded that you don't have to be fat/black/poor/whatever to object to prejudice and discrimination. Well, I knew that already. :-)<BR/><BR/>Interesting story, Mary. Babies know what they need much better than parents do most of the time!<BR/><BR/>anonymous, that's the kind of talk that pervades our culture right now, making "fat" the bugaboo for everything. We have a long way to go.Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09774535311853591028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-17240365141998501742007-07-13T23:45:00.000-05:002007-07-13T23:45:00.000-05:00I read an article not all that long ago that said ...I read an article not all that long ago that said women who lost weight before their pregnancy didn't have thinner babies than those who didn't lose weight.<BR/><BR/>Could it be that weight is-- get this --controlled by your genes?<BR/><BR/>My brother weighed more at birth than me, yet I'm smaller than him overall (yes, he's about 5 inches taller, but you get the idea).<BR/><BR/>Researchers also said that women can lose weight safely while pregnant. Um, you're growing a child. You're supposed to gain weight. Women have been giving birth for years without measurements of BMI before, during, or after pregnancy. The human race is still here and healthier than ever.<BR/><BR/>All I can do is shake my head.Carrie Arnoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02569839838912988783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-2215322243985858232007-07-13T09:05:00.000-05:002007-07-13T09:05:00.000-05:00WOW! This is unbelievable. Of course it is worse f...WOW! This is unbelievable. Of course it is worse for a baby to have low birth weight. I don't know any risks associated with high birth weight, except for increased chance of c-section. Anyway, genetics have a lot to do with baby weight. Here's my story: I'm a thin person. When I was pregnant at 19, I worked at Mickey D's and ate fast food three times a day. (I was working a lot of overtime.) Horrible, I know. I ate whatever I wanted, whenever. I gained only 20 lbs, and yet I had a 9lb 6oz, 21 inch baby boy. A big baby, just like every other woman in my family. I don't think the mother's weight or pregnancy weight gained has that much to do with the baby's weight. I was an 8 pounder, and now I'm 5'3 and 120lbs!!! I can't believe the discrimination that fat people have to face. It is amazing, really. Believe me, there are thin people that care about this too. (Especially considering much of my very beloved family is fat.)Nessylizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10719286306568684701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-78287903160873319612007-07-13T07:26:00.000-05:002007-07-13T07:26:00.000-05:00Again, this bothers me on so many levels. When I t...Again, this bothers me on so many levels. When I think back to the comments to me by an Obn, at a time I was actually at a very good weight during my pregnancy...it confirms my gut feelings that much of this nonsense is about controlling. There is no worse feeling than being a guinea pig to some mass hysteria! <BR/> I do wonder what they are trying to hide. What's the truth behind all this? I know my kids pediatrician gave me some hints along the way. <BR/> I agree that there is much risk in losing weight. Ketosis is a very real risk and with it comes cancer risks. How dare they push us over that cliff! <BR/> I am the poster child for fat babies! I was also quite happy till they they took away the fat from the milk. My protest won me back what I needed. Perhaps these experts pushing diets need to experience a taste of an angry hungry protest! he he I'll bite!maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05476646540007179475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30178203.post-22989166123839672332007-07-12T20:56:00.000-05:002007-07-12T20:56:00.000-05:00All I want to say is "Grr." My daughter said the ...All I want to say is "Grr." My daughter said the other day that she was "fat" when she was born because she weighed 8 lbs. 5 oz. at birth. I told her that unless the baby is too big to come out, I think it's much more dangerous for a newborn to be under the average weight than over the average weight. Almost every baby loses weight after being born, particularly if the mother breastfeeds (which, I must say, I highly endorse as a feeding method because it's cheaper and because it's great to bond with baby that way), and so any extra "perfect" nutrition through the womb is good for baby and mom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com